Zoe, a 45-year-old woman in the U.K., has been with her wife for 22 years. Five years ago, they opened up their relationship, and Zoe also dated and slept with cis men, genderqueer people, and trans people. Realizing she was attracted to a number of genders, Zoe-who had previously identified as lesbian-came to identify as queer and pansexual, or attracted to people regardless of their gender. Loe edasi »